Don’t stay in a bad relationship because you think it’ll get better eventually.
KNOW YOUR WORTH AND MOVE ON
There is no aspect of life that is smooth and gold. But if a relationship is emotionally and physically abusing you, then let it go. Leaving all the other negative effects related with stress over relationships, I always tell people that you can’t live the rest of your beautiful life in an ugly situation.
Sometimes, you may notice them and ignore them, but you are generally disrespecting the value of happiness in your life.
If any of the following is happening in your relationship, it is time to let go.
1. The crazy word.
This is one word that people take for granted. But, if you are in a serious argument with your partner and they call your crazy, you should be ready because that one never comes out once.
They will do it over and over again until you look like one. Someone that loves you doesn’t call you crazy in a serious argument.
If your partner starts comparing you to different personalities out there then they don’t value who you are anymore. Comparing you to someone means they would have better had the other person than you and that’s simply shows that your relationship is not going anywhere.
3. Lack of affection.
Affection is the greatest sign of love and want. Without kissing, hugging and sex, there isn’t any excuse that you should give over being in a relationship with someone. Those little things can make you a slave in your own relationship.
4. You lie for them.
Defending your partner in necessary situations is a great response but lying for them makes you the bad one and yes you are becoming the bad one. For example, they don’t show up for family events or meetings continuously, and you are lying to your family that he is on a business trip yet he is not. Girl, you got to move on.
5. Late comings.
Traffic, Right? Yes I know, I have been there before. It is not traffic that delays someone every day to get home to the people they love. Just think about it, would you get delayed by traffic or whichever reason he is giving you, on a daily basis if you badly didn’t want to worry him. Would you try and create time to get home early once in a while for some nice romantic dinner?
Then why can’t he do the same for you if you are amongst his priorities?
6. Over Judgements.
He judges you unnecessarily all the time on very unreasonable issues. It means a lot more than You may know. Blaming you all the time and thinking of you what you are things you won’t be happy about for a very long time.
7. You’d rather be with your friends.
We all have friends that we love hanging around with. But, we also have someone that we love more that we would rather stay with on a nice Saturday evening.
The biggest reason as to why you’d rather hang out with your friends is because you are happier around them than your partner and that’s a clear sign that you aren’t where you need to be.
The main reason as to why people ask for space in a relationship is because they want time to analyze if they can live with or without. Have you ever loved someone that you’d rather spend a week alone than with them? If they ask for space several times, you should use that same space to pack your bags.
9. Unnecessary habits.
People drink due to different reasons. But if you are old enough to be in a relationship, then you are also old enough to know all the negative effects of over drinking. One among those is rising of emotional issues. People tend to show their inner emotions when they are drank and most of those aren’t positive.
10. He doesn’t respect your opinion.
Sometimes you want to be alone or do something valuable on your side and they seem not to understand your point of origin. That’s not a good sign. If someone can’t take your no for an answer, they probably don’t deserve any of your answers.
11. He is unsupportive.
Life tends to be had sometimes, and those times you need your best friend to be there for you. if your partner is not there for you in those situations then you probably need someone who will.
A day like today, when you go all over the internet to search if you are in a right relationship or not, is a clear reason that you are not. If you didn’t know that you are in a bad relationship, you wouldn’t be here.
Relationships are tough and if you do all it takes but nothing special comes out of it, then let it go. There are very many times we need to stay and there are times we need to move on. Remember we are not here to stay so, there is no single reason you should be unhappy in a long time.
Don’t forget to ask me any questions about the topic, feel free to discuss with me whatever you have to, I will be happy to help.