Most of the times we get to know that something has changed about our relationships but we keep hoping that things will get back to normal. This is human nature and no one blames it on the other. But, there are times when it all shows. The signs keep showing and you start wishing that he should open up to you if he is nolonger fine with being with you.
But, it can’t happen because no one wants to be responsible for a break up so they would rather stay around doing all sorts of things that will make you give up and initiate the break up so that they don’t regret it in future or to blame it on you. You are here because you have either seen the signs or you want to confirm if they are the signs. Let’s have a look at what I have for you.
1. He is rude.
Being rude to someone you love is contradictory itself. You can easily notice this by how he has been treating you before. There are many reasons as to why anyone can be rude but there is no excuse for it to keep going on every time.
You will end up getting stressed and not confident about yourself so you would rather notice that he is not the same person and either stay or leave for better.
2. He asks for space.
Space is good for relationships but I have never believed in asking for space directly in a relationship. Space means that there is something not right going on and so one of you wants to know if they can continue being in the relationship or not.
You aren’t a job where someone wakes up one day and decides to leave then after getting financially down, they get back because there is no option. They are weighing you and I can’t call that love.
3. He avoids you.
You won’t easily notice this because men are smart while doing this. This is when work becomes so tight that coming back home early is not gonna happen for a month. If you stay together, this person will always play hide-and-seek with you.
When he is home early, he will be in bed and leave the next morning without talking with you because you are no longer a priority.
4. He ignores your texts.
This is one of the most obvious signs that women ignore. He always texted as soon as he realized he missed your call but now he doesn’t respond to the notification. This is because he doesn’t care anymore how you feel if he ignores you since it no longer bothers him to do so.
5. He gets angry real quick.
Having mood swings now and then shows that you aren’t happy. If all he shows is a negative attitude towards you over small issues then you’d rather be single.
A man that loves you will always control his emotions because he doesn’t want to be seen as the weak one so if he let’s all out, it means he wants you to know it.
6. He criticizes you.
Gone are the days when you used to be praised for any accomplishment. It is just natural for someone that wishes the best for you to be happy for you when you succeed at something.
If instead of you did well someone says you could have done better or you didn’t do your best, they think you are a disappointment to them and that my friend is not love.
7. Sex is a mystery.
Sex is the most important thing in a relationship. It can break or mend you. It bonds both partners in ways beyond our understanding so if it is not happening, then you aren’t really in a relationship.
You are just housemates trying to keep it together. Men naturally love sex so if he is not having it with you, he is having it with someone else. It is the truth. He just doesn’t love you anymore.
8. He tries to get physical when you fight.
Fighting in relationships is normal, no one is perfect we understand that. The problem comes in when he tends to become violent. It means that he is not afraid to hurt you and that is very dangerous for your face.
Getting violence from someone you think loves you could hurt you emotionally and that is not the reason as to why we should be in relationships.
9. He compares you to other girls.
Why don’t you dye your hair like her? Why don’t you dress up like jo’s girlfriend? Why don’t you get the same job as anna? Do you know what this means? It means that what he wants is not you, what he wants is the kind of girl that he is comparing you to.
You have been together for a while and all of a sudden you should look like someone else? I don’t know about you but it doesn’t make sense to me.
10. His phone is more interesting than you.
Do you remember the days that you were dating? He never let go of his phone because he expected your text in seconds and he wanted to respond as soon as he could. He did not have anything on his mind apart from you.
He nolonger wants to know how your day went at work and yet he is fine being on his phone 24/7. He doesn’t care anymore about how you are and the sooner you realize that, the better.
11. He stopped flirting with you.
Flirting and being sensual is the stem of a relationship, if it is cut, your relationship could die. If you flirt with him on the phone like you used to and he thinks you are being unserious then he is seriously losing love for you. It used to be fun and he used to like it and all of a sudden you are bothering him with it now. He feels otherwise about you.
12. He stopped saying he loves you.
You can’t know if someone loves you if they can’t say it. I know you are probably thinking that actions speak louder than words and that’s correct but he used to say it and he is not saying it now. He either stopped loving you or doesn’t feel the importance of saying it and that’s more dangerous than it looks. It means that they no longer do.
It is not rare for someone to stay with you when they don’t love you but the person who is suffering is you. You can’t keep on keeping on with things that make you unhappy because you think that’s how it is supposed to be. If you realize that something is wrong with your relationship either address it or cowardly move out of the relationship because sometimes cowardice brings better to the table than hoping that things will change.
Have you ever seen these signs before? What did you do about it? Share your experience with us in the comment section below. If you have any questions feel free to ask. I’ll be glad to hear from you.